Wednesday, April 6, 2011

The cultivation of temperament

 The cultivation of temperament
one: calm
(1) Do not reveal your emotions.
(2) Do not tell everyone that your problems and experiences.
(3), in consultation with the views of others before their first thought, but do not talk about.
(4) there is an opportunity not to nag your dissatisfaction.
(5) other important decisions as far as possible to discuss the best every day and then released.
(6) do not have any of the panic talk, walk, too.
II: carefully
(1) what is happening around them, often thinking their causation.
(2) the implementation of the impossible position, to uncover their fundamental crux of the problem.
(3) of the accustomed ways of doing things, the proposal should be improved or optimized.
(4) should do something to develop the habit of methodical and orderly.
(5) often find a few other people do not see the problems or defects.
(6) anywhere on the inadequacy of their own to fill the seats where.
III: courage
(1) lack of confidence not commonly used words
(2) do not often go back, have decided to do lightly overturned.
(3) fighting over the crowd, do not assertive.
(4) the overall atmosphere is low, you should be optimistic about the sun.
(5) intentions of doing anything else, because someone is watching you.
(6), when things do not breath, and again to find a breakthrough to end but also neat and tidy.
Four: Tatu
(1) Do not bother to have a partner who could become rivals.
(2) on other people's mistakes, small errors do not care about.
(3) the money to be generous, to learn the three facilities (fiscal measures, the Dharma, giving of fearlessness)
(4) do not have the arrogance of power and knowledge of the bias.
(5) any results and achievements should be shared with others.
(6) must be some sacrifice or devotion, he himself walked in front.
Five: Integrity
(1) failed to do Do not say, say on the efforts to do so.
(2) the empty slogans or slogans do not often linked to his mouth.
(3) for the client's
(4) stop all
(5) juggle a small smart, no good!
(6) calculate the cost of the integrity of the product or service that is cost of the brand.
Six: play
(1) review of any fault, when start their own or their own people began to reflect.
(2) issues after the end of the first review of fault, and then set out the credit.
(3) admit the beginning from higher levels, the table starts from the lower power
(4) start a program, the first clear delineation of responsibilities, and the distribution properly.
(5) of the
(6) take responsibility for the losses caused by the company should bear

a person's temperament refers to a person within the external expression of conservation or cultivation. Temperament is exposed within the unconscious, not just superficial. If the unlettered, that despite decorated with gorgeous clothes again, this man is no disposition to speak of, but others feel superficial. So, if you want to upgrade their temperament, to do their excellent, in addition to well-dressed, speaking in a measured addition, we must continuously improve their knowledge, moral character, to enrich themselves.
1. a person's temperament is an internal training and external behavior of conversation, interpersonal manner, attitude combined. Elegant and generous, natural temperament give people a comfortable, friendly, easy-going feel.
2. temperament is not learned, but cultivated. As a woman can not say too much, but to know everything. Usually have to learn something, to read more. (Not read gossip magazines) all right, then to learn to dance, or exercise, but also to learn more communicative.
3. taste the decision makings.
4. so-called
5. more reading, more thinking, temperament than two months, one month can be changed, which requires one or two years or even longer. Many people finish college, not seen in a long time people said that she had become a kind of, in fact, out of the influence of campus life, more books always good. Another point is that what people want to be, and what people to make friends, pro-gentleman, far villain, a long time, reveal the temperament to come naturally.
6. Reading is fundamental.
7. practice what the ballet yoga, Hepburn's temperament is out practicing ballet training.
8. to be a good living environment, good attitude. To train a good temperament.
9. temperament is distributed out of an intrinsic charm, although the change make-up appearance, but this thing is the temperament to rely on inner cultivation, temperament if you want to show it with external things, it is contrived.
10. not the same childhood environment will create a different person, a person's experience, knowledge, understanding of their own will have a certain influence on temperament.
11. temperament is divided up into many categories. Such as publicity, spirituality handsome, charming, there is a nobility that is more difficult to achieve. The basic performance of temperament from the outside in dress, demeanor, movements are not outrageous. Hard to grasp it! Some lovely temperament, if not natural to only nurture, first understand what type they are, and then have their own ideas, to create their own perfect temperament acquired.
12. qualities that are innate and acquired education and training, but in the short term can not change the natural factors and educational background, you can try to develop self-confidence! Confident will be a beautiful woman, but not lose the humility!
13. Who is the natural temperament can not nurture? Maggie Cheung after 10 years and 10 years is like two people! In addition to the above said, but also my heart always remind myself: I am the most beautiful, most cultured. Most important is to have self-confidence!
14. Women's temperament United States, is the full performance of female beauty. Temperament of the United States, will make its appearance while men ignore forever its beauty.

to accept your face
character or appearance of each individual concerned, has its own unique qualities and benefits. Know how to play, can be more attractive.
trust and concern for others
enthusiasm and care, is one of the most attractive qualities. Others concerned with understanding, will get the same return. While others will be impressed for such qualities.
deportment dignified and full of confidence.
a free and easy gait, vigorous, confident woman, the most attractive people.
to maintain a sense of humor
an appropriate occasion to understand the right time and smile or laugh expose people, other people will be able to be welcomed. Do not be afraid of revealing the true feelings

matter what kind of emotions, warmth and affection, should not be hidden. An often repressed, hidden emotions of women, will be seen as uncaring, no one would like an iceberg exchanges.
difficulties, you should seek help from friends
friends would help you feel to them their importance. They not only do not despise you, but will lead to friends, more love for you.
do not care about
women in the exchanges, we should mind open, suddenly, generous, do not hold grudges, pettiness. Do a little bit small on the flies into a rage, preoccupied, and even in many cases makes us all very embarrassing and awkward situation, it will annoying. Do not regard themselves as lofty

women do not regard themselves as aloof in social life, not because different people with their own temper, as there are differences, to show impatience or look down on someone else's way, of course, not because of his position, status than others, or general appearance , too poor humble dress, to graceful, neither overbearing nor servile.
not too wise
Everyone has their own self-esteem, there are proud of the place. Show off is the lack of education performance. Of course, women are attentive than men to consider the issue carefully, the kind of careless of men in front of appropriate display for your thoughtful and careful, he will be a very high value to you, do not think that this is get smart, it is desired bit performance, but also the performance of delicate female mind. Do not ignore the instrument

As a woman, in social situations, care must be dignified and clean the instrument. In social activities, dress appropriately and it should be modified. Avoid fatigue Pita Da, slovenly.

after doing the above points, plus the following, you will practice the better temperament, the temperament of the natural beauty will make you mature.


read the poem the most scenery;
best to listen to music;
selection of the finest magazines;
to see the best works

child temperament necessary training
three temperament for a person like a breath between the chest and abdomen, can not see or touched, but decided to leave the impression in the minds of others . Every child has the extraordinary qualities of the potential, as long as parents follow the child's innate temperament carefully built, will be able to train exceptional qualities of the child. Temperament one: elegant
typical characters: Snow White
develop ways: good moral character Temperament is a person
external manifestation of inner qualities, and the moral quality of people within the most important part, which includes compassion, kindness, caring, tolerance, humility and so on. Usually the parents should set an example to start from the child's words and deeds, consciously develop his good moral character.
elegant style of conversation
words reflect the language is the external manifestation of people's thinking, children and others is an important way to communicate. Therefore, the cultivation of the child conversation can not be ignored. Parents are their children's first language education teacher, do not let the parents from the child's mouth swearing say; listen to is talk to those who respect, so let the children learn to listen equally important.
decent clothing
elegance decent clothing is an indispensable part. Decent clothing to wear not only requires children to be clean and generous, but also with their age and identity match.
temperament II: Romantic
typical characters: the bulk of his son
develop ways: love life
romantic feelings are all originated from the love of the good life. Parents from the start bit by bit, to give children the opportunity to create more life experience, let him experience the joy of life, feel the beauty of life, and then love your present life, bold vision and practice to a better life.
sense the United States
the United States who feel strongly must be romantic. Parents can develop children's observation, let him go to find beauty; by teaching children to enjoy the scenery, art works, etc., so he went to feel the beauty; the children's art, music, dance and other arts education, with him planting flowers, etc. and let him learn to create beauty. But the romantic longing for the United States the driving force behind Oh.
imagination
depletion does not produce the romantic stereotype of thinking, bold imagination is the source of romance. Children born with good imagination, in their eyes, all the things in the world are living, parents may wish to proceed from this point, training, stimulate children's imagination, such as the form of stories by children themselves into the story situations to go swimming; respect and understanding of children, not to view adult bondage rigid dogma whimsical children.
temperament three: free and easy
typical characters: Monkey King
Ways of Training: Training a unique personality
personality of children are often more self-confidence, dare to express themselves is different from the other side, and thus appears elegant and unconventional. However, in fostering children's unique personality, the personality of the child shall promptly correct the bad side, so as not to become rebellious children, affecting their normal development. Humor to make a more attractive personality, so an optimistic attitude from the start to cultivate children humorous language.
learn to give up
preoccupied, too rigidly adhere to the details of the children grow up certainly will not be a free and easy, and they are often difficult to have a big success. There should be awareness of parents to train young children learn to give up and let him know, such as fish and bear's paw can not have, things such as simple truth priorities. However, teaching children learn to give up, be sure to grasp the proper degree, so as to avoid negative consequences.
dared to question
free and easy temperament is another important performance is the courage to challenge the authority, the final analysis, dared to question. Will create a static life a Parents should encourage children to boldly challenged in peacetime and in time he proposed to answer the Break the existing children will naturally become bound up free and easy.

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